Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from two different continents.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with international logistics, everything gets more complicated. Paperwork, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel impossible.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t realistic.

Then we found out we could website say “I do” over Zoom — for real.

At first, we thought it was some kind of loophole. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah allow fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We scheduled our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our loved ones to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my apartment. My partner said it from their temporary station.

It was emotional. It was stress-free. And it was ours.

The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our certified marriage certificate the same day — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.

If you’re trying to make your relationship official from afar, don’t wait. Online marriage is legal, and it’s a beautiful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that love doesn’t need borders — and that what matters most is the commitment.